The Frugal Catholic: “Cutting Back to Give Back” by Martha Wild King–September 20, 2009

I don't imagine Daniel was thinking about "Cutting Back"

Perhaps the best explanation I ever heard for watching one’s money was presented by a family called the “Breedens.”  They had ten children, were strong Evangelical Christians, lived very simply in Maryland, and Sharon, the mom, home-schooled the entire group.  When I asked Sharon about budgeting, she succinctly stated, “If you save it over here, you can spend it over there.”

Is there profundity in that thought? Well, say you cut down on your food budget by cooking more at home–everything from home-made bread in a bread machine to half powdered milk mixed with half fresh milk.  Perhaps you limit yourself to only one meal out a month versus several meals out a week in your quest to be more frugal.  And you begin “brown bagging” it or actually lunch-boxing it (more ecological) and are using that bread-machine bread you made.  Well the bottom line of all of this cost-cutting is what are you going to do with that savings?  According to Sharon Breeden, “If you save it over here, you can spend it over there.”  So your food-cutting-cost savings can be put towards tithing, college fund, or into a clear-day (not rainy day) savings account.  The goal is to learn to live under your means not above it or at it.  And to live this way is like any competitive sport: it takes constant practice and discipline.

Mother Theresa said, “We can’t always do great things, but we can do small things with great love.”  Is that not what The Frugal Catholic does?  Does he or she not emulate the Proverbs 31 woman: “She rises while it is still night, and distributes food to her household.” NAB  She knows what is in her kitchen and does small things wisely.

So too, we can do small things with great love.  We can make small cuts here so we can tithe/save/give over there.  Being The Frugal Catholic is a thought process enabling us to use His resources prudently and to His glory.

One of the best adages I know concerning economical living is a saying which came from The Great Depression era: “Make it do; do without; use it up, and wear it out.”  Plant that  on your brain and say it each time you grocery shop, look on your favorite internet shopping site, or pick up a catalog.  Being prudent with your funds doesn’t mean hoarding ketchup or stealing towels from a hotel.  It means being content with what you have, doing without new, using up what exists, and wearing out what’s there.  Sirach 18:30 states it well: “Go not after your lusts, but keep your desires in check.” NAB If we were following that verse, credit cards and debt wouldn’t haunt us.

More thoughts?  With each article of clothing that comes in, give one away.  Check for USDA Food Plans: Cost of Food at home at four levels to compare how you and your family are doing regarding eating costs.  Employ the envelope system where you cash a certain amount of money for each category/envelope, and when that cash is gone, you stop spending.  Lastly: SOS Stay Out of Stores.  Create a family budget with all participating.

Remember frugality teaches self-discipline; if you save it over here, you can spend it over there. Or in the words of Aesop’s Fables, “Save while you can, for you might not have a chance later.”

The Frugal Catholic: “My Journey Home” by Martha Wild King—August 30, 2009


When I think of my journey into Catholicism, it mixes into my motherhood travels.  That journey began twenty-eight years ago with my quest for frugality.  Likewise, my first acquaintance with Catholicism started in 1982 with Natural Family Planning and the Couple to Couple League from Cincinnati Ohio.  A dear Catholic neighbor, Virginia Soter, introduced us to that method after the birth of our first child.  A few years later, I met a strong Catholic woman, Linda Di Muzzio, who gave me some tapes on the Mass.  From those I learned that, unlike in my Protestant tradition, Catholics believe Communion, or the Eucharist, is the consecrated body and blood of Christ.  Protestants, on the other hand, practice Communion as a symbol of Christ’s body and blood.  The way you can tell they believe it is a “symbol” is how these two are treated after Communion has occurred. Protestants throw the wine and bread down the drain or into the trash.  Catholics worship the remaining consecrated hosts (bread) which is kept in a Tabernacle in the church.

So after sixty years in the Protestant church and after thirteen years of helping “clean up” after Communion, one Sunday after church while dumping the wine down the sewer, I told God I couldn’t do it anymore.  While riding home, the idea hit me.  I could go to the early Catholic service then the 10:30 Protestant service with my husband. So I called St. Cecilia Catholic Church on Bainbridge Island WA and was told I could start RCIA classes.  While driving to that first class this winter, the moon was full and huge–a natural sign of God’s lavish love on my spiritual journey.

coming HOME

This past Easter, I became a confirmed Catholic, although until my annulment goes through (I was married before from 1971 to 1974), I can only be blessed during the Eucharist, but I can be near and adore the BODY AND BLOOD versus a mere symbol.  My husband too, of twenty-nine years, has decided to start RCIA classes so we can worship together.

So how does all of my journey into my Catholic faith have any connection with being a “Frugal Catholic?”  It was my quest for frugality that shaped my mothering, and my mothering pulled me into Catholicism.  Thus to be frugal and a Catholic, for me, go together.  And in truth, if we look to our Lord for the answers, He owned nothing.  He wrote nothing,yet He gave us His all.  We have nothing to worry about if we trust in His providence.  As was written in  Hebrews 13:5-6, “Let your life be free from love of money but be content with what you have, for he has said, “I will never forsake you or abandon you.”  Thus we may say with confidence: “The Lord is my helper, and I will not be afraid.  What can anyone do to me?” NAB

Frugality is characterized by thriftiness and avoidance of waste.  It is meager and involves little expense.  Catholicism is living my faith through the Church which Jesus Christ founded.  So what better way to live my Catholic faith than to live frugally so that I can give generously.



Hello world!

Hello Frugal Catholics, or those of you dear folks whom have been led here.  Welcome to my site.  This is a site where my previously published articles can be found and hopefully you will contribute your inspired frugal and Catholic ideas.  I am a 70 year old mother of five children and wife of 39 years to Captain Michael King, USN, Retired, and Grandmother of three.   I homeschooled  all of my offspring for 22 years.

As a bit of history, I was born a Protestant and  raised in the Presbyterian Church, and  I committed my life to Christ on June 20, 1976, at the age of 27.  Since that time I have loved and served my Lord Jesus the best I know how; but I have always felt that something was missing– a sacredness, a home, an unchanging faith and an adherence to  morals in this turbulent society–a place where I could walk into a church (anywhere in the world) and find the same worship.  Those were issues I struggled with, and as you can read from my first article posted on August 30, 2009, I found those issues resolved when I set foot in our local Catholic Church–Saint Cecilia Catholic Church here on Bainbridge Island WA.  I came HOME, not just to a building, not even to a faith, but to the Bride of Christ, His Church.  I had the Bridegroom (Jesus), now I have His Bride, The One Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church–THE CATHOLIC CHURCH.

Since coming into The Catholic Church, so much more of my daily  Bible reading is making sense, and I find a new hunger in wanting to receive my “Daily Bread” through the Eucharist.  I feel like 2000 years of knowledge have unfolded on me, and for that I am so grateful to the many devoted Catholics who have upheld the faith so I can now hold it.  Likewise too, I am grateful for my Protestant upbringing which has fed me to this point.  Praise to God for the path He put me on.  May your life be blessed greatly, and may you be held in the palm of His hand on your journey for Catholicism and frugality.

The Frugal Catholic

Equals Living Under Your Means with Wise Financial Planning and Discovering the Joys of Good Stewardship


Equals Living Under Your Means with Wise Fianancial Planning and Discovering the Joys of Good Stewardship