Years ago, our family made the decision to get off of the Christmas roller-coaster. We became blessed by understanding what was important about Christmas. According to MSN Money Central, about 12 million Americans are still paying off last holiday’s bills, for too often we allow our gift-giving to become a larger statement than the gift of self and season.
Christmas is a time for friends to practice simplicity.
What we, as a family, decided years ago was to get out of the Christmas race, and this is how we did it:
We quit sending Christmas cards.
We quit giving to our extended family members and friends. Instead we just gave small gifts to the children’s Godparents and a gift of fruit to our Mother and Father.
We give one small item to each of our five children and then a gift card. Michael also is the one who shops for the children since he handles the budget, and he purchases the gift cards which they love.
We also fill the stockings with chocolates and a small gift such as a pocket knife, cards, a piece of jewelry or a chap stick.
We read The Gift of the Magi every Christmas dinner, and last year the oldest child took to telling his own version which had us all in stitches.
On Christmas morning, we say a prayer at the top of the stairs, light a candle, then go down in order from the oldest to the youngest child. We switch the order each year. Of course, we take a picture as the children are descending, and when we open gifts, we do it one person at a time–not all at once.
For gifts to neighbors, I get coffee cups from thrift stores and fill them full of teas or a small candle, and wrapping paper is usually newsprint or recycled gift bags.
Let me share with you what Hannah, age 23, stated, “What I like about a simple Christmas is having a small exchange of presents because it takes the pressure off an extravagant Christmas, particularly in tough economic times. I also like filling stockings with you, Mom or Dad, because it involves older family members. I like cooking with you (Mom) and making breakfast. And by continuing to conduct small family traditions, it reminds my brain of childhood memories which produces endorphins and calms me during Christmas day.” And to add a younger thought, child number five, Deahna, age 13, stated that she enjoys the way we go down the stairs with a candle, how Mr. Butte, our neighbor, comes into the house and steals the Baby Jesus and brings Him back on Christmas day so He can be in the manger, and how we can all spend family time when people are usually at home.
So there you have it. Before you give, GET information from those your love on what truly is meaningful FOR THEM. And don’t forget to get going on St. Cecilia’s Christmas activities such as The Giving Tree, the annual Matt Talbot Christmas Dinner, or the Super Supper on the last Wednesday of the month in Conger Hall for the needy on Bainbridge as other parish activities listed.
Remember, “Ask and it will be given to you: seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.” (Matthew 7:7 NAB) Let’s get information so our giving will be with wisdom.
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